Your Man Can’t Get It Up. Now What?!
Your man checks all the boxes: he’s handsome, charming, and has your group chat’s seal of approval. But there’s one problem: things don’t look (or feel) like you expected them down south.
You may ask yourself, “Isn’t he supposed to be hard?”, or “Did I do something wrong?”
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a common issue, even for guys under 40. And it can wreak havoc on your sex life, especially if you both ignore the problem and expect it to disappear magically.
Before you stress yourself out, remember that it’s completely normal if your partner doesn’t get a boner on command—he’s a man, not a machine. But if he routinely can’t get it up when you’re both ready to get down, it’s time to take action.
Now that we got that out of the way, let’s talk about what to do when your man can’t get it up.